Thursday, 5 July 2012

WOULD YOU CHEAT IF YOU CAUGHT YOUR MAN CHEATING???

Men feel they have the God given right to cheat! Men are polygamous by nature, guys will always be guys, you know how men are- these and a million more excuses have been used to justify their skirt chasing forever. So you catch your man with another girl and he is sorry for two minutes, some are even unapologetic, he takes care of you financially and comes back home to sleep, what else do you want?
Tides are shifting, after all whats good for the geese .........! the woman you left at home has needs too and nowadays she won't wait for you to come back reeking of some other woman's perfume before she satisfies them.
For some women there is nothing as satisfying as a revenge affair. They feel the man brought it upon himself by neglecting their needs and being really insensitive. Would you cheat if you found yourself in a situation where your husband can't seem to curb his appetite for other women?
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  1. Anonymous5 July 2012 at 04:52

    I don't think two wrongs make a right. If a woman cheats because her husband cheats it doesn't solve anything it only creats more hurt and pain and irrevocably damages the union. Now I am not saying that the man cheating doesn't cause damage but look at this way if you get shot once your chances of survival are better than if you get shot twice.

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  2. Mary Ogungbola5 July 2012 at 06:24

    Cheating on one's spouse "to get back at" him is a reactive rather than a proactive approach to solving the problem. While cheating is condemnable, the woman MUST never allow herself to revenge by lowering the standard against her own value. Except of course, she does that already and doesn't value chastity, faithfulness. One need not revenge to show one was hurt but to determine to stick with right values even in the face of the opposite. If he is sorry, I believe he should be forgiven (smae goes for the woman) and he ought to prove his faithfulness from that point forward as trust would be already out of the relationship. In order to get past the hurt of betrayal and unfaithfulness, the woman will do well to indulge in activities that assert her dignity as a person and activities that bring her joy. The health of the marriage before that incidence will determine whether the marriage will survive further or not.
    The question is why commit to marriage if one is not ready to be faithful to it. Marriage is not do or die or is it?

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