He asks you to jump, you ask how high, STOP RIGHT THERE! DON'T DO IT, you might think your unfailing devotion to him will make him see how much you love and adore him and make him fall completely in love with you back but believe me a lot of times it doesn't happen that way. I'v heard a million tales about girls who'v washed, cleaned and cooked for their guys, his family and his friends for years and been pushed to the curb for some girl with long red talons who he just met six months ago who can't cook to save her life. There are things you do for yourself and yourself only - Not for your man, just for YOU -
- Don't ever give up your friends for a relationship, they might be the ones who'll still be there when your boyfriend isn't and you might need their shoulders to cry on.
- Always be the one to determine what weight you want to be - lose or gain a few extra pounds to please yourself, lots of husbands tell their wives they don't have a problem with the extra weight they put on after kids or for whatever reason and then go out and look for slim girls to run around with.
- We v all heard this one ''i love my woman natural'' yet he is out there with chicks wearing 24 inch weaves , bright red lips, fake lashes and fake nails. Do the things that make you look and feel good about yourself as long as they are age appropriate.
- Never give up your dignity for any man. Do not wash his clothes, there are plenty good laundries he can take them to, tidy up his house like you would tidy yours, cook for him as he should cook for you if the situation demands it and remember there are so many other ways to show you care about him. Don't become his house-girl to prove a point
- Do not give up your right to have an opinion and to express that opinion.
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